How To Attract, Seduce, Meet and ‘Pick-Up’ Women

I’m about to tell you something that is going to absolutely blow your mind.  I mean, seriously…I am about to rock your world with a very little known fact that will astound you.  You ready?

 Women love to talk.

I know, mind-bending, ain’t it?  Women talk a lot, at least most of them do.  There’s really an exception to every rule, and it’s true with this as well.  However, as much as this can intimidate you as a man, it can also make things a LOT easier.

See, since women like to talk so much, it’s really opening up the conversation that is the hardest part.  Keeping it going isn’t all that difficult.  Since women do greatly enjoy talking (although only God knows why), they can do wonders to keep a conversation afloat — IF they’re into it in the first place.  Women (especially the hot ones that are your prime targets) are generally not so desperate for companionship that they’ll immediately jump into any conversation with any Joe Schmoe that walks up to them and stutters a “hi.”  You DO have to get their attention, and once you have it, you must interact, and bring to the table something to offer.

So what is it that can fire up a conversation?  That’s to be covered in a later post, under a general heading of “the approach.”  However, once you get up the guts to get in there, and get a decent conversation going, it’s doesn’t have to be a trip to the dentist to keep the talk flowing.  Drinks help people to loosen up in conversation, but I do not advise or condone getting girls drunk to make them easier to handle.  There’s a term for that, it’s called “date rape” and it’s generally frowned upon, not to mention illegal.

But anyways, my best tip to you for now, without dipping too much into the content of future posts, is to keep the conversation going by participating in it, paying attention to what she says, and keeping a pretty solid grip on the topic steering wheel.  You don’t have to strong-arm her into whatever topic you want, but it’s best to avoid flat, static, boring topics like “the weather.”  Stay interesting.  Ask her things nobody else has before.  Make it personal, but not crude or impolite.  Be the man she has never gotten to talk to before, rather than the same schmucks she has to deal with on an hourly basis.

More on the actual nuances of conversation later, as well as body language techniques and general attitude later.  For now, keep watching for the next installment of posts.  I promise you, it’s gold.