Initiating a Conversation (What NOT to do)
Ok, this post is less on what to do when you approach a woman, and more on what you should NOT do.
For example…let’s discuss the biggest thing that’s on all your minds: pickup lines. Don’t use them. As clever as it may seem to make a crude comment about some part of her anatomy using a very lame pun, it does not spark any attraction, unless it’s so ridiculous that it’s purely humor, and it’s obvious that you are using it as such. No they’re not astronaut pants. No, her daddy was not a carpenter. No, it didn’t hurt when she fell from Heaven. Ok, so mayber her father WAS a carpenter…they’re out there.
But the point is, avoid pickup lines unless you’re using them for pure comedic value, and it’s obvious in your delivery that you’re not seriously trying to pick her up by making a pun relating a judgmental rating to the name of a state.
Anyway, pickup lines are corny. They’re lame. They don’t work, as a general rule. Stay away unless you’re damn sure of your ability to use them, and if that’s the case you don’t need them to get girls.
The main other thing from this post that I want you to remember is that above most other priorities, you must not, I repeat NOT, seem desperate. Casual is the word. Funny is the word. Confident is the word. So what if there are a few “words.” They’re important….and “desperate” is the word to avoid.
Updates and new posts are in the future, so keep checking in. You won’t regret it.
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