How To Attract, Seduce, Meet and ‘Pick-Up’ Women

Here’s a bit of advice I’d be willing to bet you’ll quickly agree with: you’re going to perform your “game” significantly better if you’re comfortable: comfortable with yourself, comfortable with her, and comfortable with your surroundings.

The next few posts will detail a couple things you can do to get a little more comfortable with each of the above things.

1) Comfortable with yourself: this may seem silly, but look in the mirror once in a while.  Just look at yourself.  If you can manage to do it without feeling too awkward, be naked while you’re doing it, like in front of the full-length bathroom mirror.  Now, it doesn’t matter if you’re ugly, balding, overweight, or any physical problem…find something to compliment yourself on.  It can be your smile, your eyes, a bit of good muscle tone on your forearms…whatever you can see about yourself that appeals to you, something positive.  Every time you do this, find something new to be pleased about.  I advise doing this once every two or three days.

Also, after you find something good about yourself, find something not so good, and make a plan on how to deal with it.  If you’ve got a bit of extra weight around your stomach, figure out a plan to lose some of that weight, or at least come to terms with it.  It’s all about your self-image.  If you’re happy with yourself, then it’ll show and come off as an air of confidence, which is definitely attractive to women, even if you yourself may not be a Brad Pitt.  Attitude creates excellence, my friend, and a positive attitude about yourself can create excellent attraction between you and a woman.

 Just be sure you don’t overdo it…there’s a very solid and defined line between cocky, egotistical asshole guy and self-confident, happy-with-himself guy.  You don’t want to come off as narcissistic and conceited.  That WILL turn a woman off to you.

 So yeah, step one is to become comfortable with yourself.  Once you’ve made yourself aware of your good points, worked on or come to terms with your lesser points, and formed a positive self-image, you’ll display a confidence that will make you much more appealing to just about anyone, and in particular the ladies.