How To Attract, Seduce, Meet and ‘Pick-Up’ Women

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One very powerful tool you can use as you play with using humor is sarcasm, but you have to be careful with how you use it.

 Sarcasm is kind of like a doctor’s scalpel, it’s a razor sharp tool that should be used with extreme skill and precision.  If you slip when you’re using it, you could end up slicing yourself or the person you’re using it on.

You shouldn’t just play around with sarcasm…it has the capacity to go awry pretty easily, making you come off as a jerk or actually hurting someone’s feelings.  Sarcasm is best used when you’ve already got your manner down enough to the point that your tone and delivery make it fairly clear that you’re not entirely serious.

Sarcasm is really best suited for those with comedic styles where they’re fairly quiet, generally serious.  Coming out of nowhere with a casual, off-hand quip using sarcasm can go quite well for a person who’s basically more quiet and solemn.

 So as with any comedic techniques you plan on trying, I advise you to test out your use of sarcasm against your close friends, people who know you already.  This will help you to refine your skills before anything is really on the line.

I realize that it’s all well and good to sit back here, typing at my computer, and tell you guys that you need to learn to be funny, but that it’s not necessarily that easy.

To start, where do you find your material?  Obviously, telling the same tired old jokes that everyone’s heard a thousand times isn’t going to do anything for you…at least, nothing positive.

Other people who advocate the comedic approach recommend that you actually watch professional comedians do what they do, and take lessons and notes from them.  Now, don’t copy their material and pass it off as your own, that’s not going to get you anywhere either, not to mention that it’s just plain wrong.

What you SHOULD do is really take note of not so much what they’re saying, as how they’re saying it.  In my time, I’ve learned that you can be pretty funny with a lack of content…it’s all in the delivery.  95% of all comedy is based upon observations.  You take note of something you see or hear, think about it, realize just why it’s so funny, and share your thoughts in a humorous manner.

Whatever you do, avoid slapstick comedy.  As funny as they are, Will Farrel, Adam Sandler, Jim Carrey, and Robin Williams just aren’t going to be prime choices for learning humor with the intent of using it to create attraction with women.  As I said a second ago, it’s all in the delivery.  If you want to learn from the pros, try watching some Will Smith movies, or maybe Jeff Goldblum.  Some of the funniest people in the world are funny because they’re so expressive.

Look at Eddie Murphy.  His humor can be pretty loud and obnoxious, which isn’t what you’re particularly after, but that man can make you laugh just by flashing a big smile.

Even people who seem incredibly serious can be immensely funny.  Take actors like Tommy Lee Jones, Sean Connery, and Denzel Washington.  Serious actors, who can still pull off being quite funny when they want to be, usually without even needing to smile when they do it!

So take lessons from the pros.  Experiment with your friends to see what sort of comedic style suits you the best.  I guarantee, once you’ve played around a bit and found your niche, you’ll see a huge boost in popularity, and a lot more female attention!

Hey guys, I’m officially back after the long Christmas and New Year’s break.  Been rather busy, spending most of my time with family, friends, and the odd hottie. 

 Speaking of which, one of the girls who’s been occupying a fair amount of my time would be this quite stunning babe from Illinois, Heather.

We’ve been friends for a while, actually met over the internet.  Lately we’ve been hanging out and shooting the shit more often.  I’m presently in a quite happy relationship, but Heather has flat out told me that was I available, she’d totally “hit it.”

 I asked her what it was she found attractive about me, and she simply replied: “You’re so damn funny!”

 And there you have it.  Being attractive to women through the use of humor, the main “technique” I’m trying to teach you guys.  Now, there’s nothing I did in particular to “target” Heather, but nonetheless it obviously did something.  I’ve practiced being genuinely funny for so long, that lo and behold, perhaps I actually simply have BECOME a pretty entertaining person.

Obviously so, since I’m only 19 and a blazing hottie of 22 like Heather is all up in my grill, haha.  So yeah, see guys?  It’s not impossible by any means to get girls you may think are out of your league.  It’s all about confidence, and being at ease, so that you can more effectively use your arsenal.

And before long, you won’t even have to try that hard to be funny, and therefore attractive.  It’ll become a part of who you are, and you’ll draw positive attention from all around you!

All images used in this post were acquired directly from Heather, and are used with her permission.  And yes, this is mostly just showing off my hot friend, lol.  Oh, and apologies about the quality for some of the pictures…I don’t have ANY decent picture resizing software.

First impressions decide a lot of where things will go in a relationship, and obviously, first impressions are based on what a person first sees…so for this, you’ll want to make yourself look as good as possible to women.  One approach is to “tank out” and plow on the muscle mass.  This guy here, The Muscly Jerk, has an awesome program that can turn the scrawniest little wuss into a badass chick magnet with cannons for arms.  He’s got a pretty entertaining attitude, and his product looks to be pretty worthwhile.

Another popular e-book out there, Burn the Fat, Feed the Muscle, looks like an amazing program that actually works to help you lose unwanted pounds and replace them with lean, sturdy muscle.  It’s one of the biggest products for this sort of thing out there, and if you’re interested in getting rid of your fat and putting on your muscle, this product could be worth taking a look at.

And after doing a little delving, I found this program as well, The Truth About Muscle Gain.  Built by a former highschool beanpole who decided to turn his life around, it tells you how to ACTUALLY put on muscle, contrary to the plethora of BS information that assaults you wherever you look.  After wasting months of his life and thousands of dollars of his money, and choking down entirely too many disgusting weight gain drinks, he finally figured out the secret that’s helped him and his “students” for years now.  If you’re interested in working on your physique using techniques that actually work, take a look at his site.

Believe it or not, the most critical part of your wardrobe is your footwear.  We all know how much importance women place on their own shoes…well, same is placed on YOURS.  I know it’s not fair, that men should not be expected to own as many pairs of shoes as their girlfriends, but sometimes it may be necessary…

What you put on your feet demonstrates to a woman your maturity, ability to take care of things, and dedication.  If you’re wearing nice shoes that match your outfit, are clean, and are well-taken care-of, you’ll do better than with the ratty pair of sneakers you throw on to mow the lawn.

Now, I’m not talking about dress shoes to a club, but women like it if you wear things that are a bit more mature than a pair of basketball shoes or sandals…sneakers are acceptable, they just have to be nice!  Keep em clean, keep em in one piece, and make sure they go with what you’re wearing.  If you have a fair amount of variety in your wardrobe, this means you could feasibly have way more shoes than a man would prefer, but it does help out your chances big time.

This means shoe-shopping fairly regularly…which is a good thing and a bad thing.  Good side: you get to go shoe-shopping with your girl.  Bad side: you have to go shoe-shopping with your girl.  It’s all how you look at it, but how SHE looks at it is the most important.  She wants your shoes nice, clean, and appropriate, and in a way they’re more important than the entire rest of the outfit, although you KNOW they’re looking at that, too.

So yeah, if you want to “step up” your game, you’ve gotta look the part, and it all starts with and ends at the shoes.

This is a nice little list I snagged off of Seductioninsider.com.    It relates to the responses of a group of women surveyed relating to attraction and dancing. 

TEN QUALITIES WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN! (On and off the dance floor)

1. Good Leader on the dance floor who stays on the music.

2. Stable career, financial security.

3. Confident, self assured in the bedroom.

4. Direct eye contact; confident in public.

5. Neat, clean appearance and well groomed.

6. Sense of humor, quick-witted, intelligent.

7. Well-mannered i.e.; opens the door, introduces you to his friends, good table manners etc.

8. Physically fit, keeping weight under control.

9. Interested in what you have to say, a good listener.

10.Nice looking.

Nice how “nice looking” is at the bottom of the list, eh?  That’s because it’s only a tiny part of what draws women’s attention…it doesn’t hurt if the package is nice, but the pudding is what’s important.

It doesn’t matter if you’re a natural stud…you don’t have to look like you popped off the screen of a Hollywood movie to get girls.  You DO, however, have to use what you got and look good.  A well-kempt guy will do much better with the ladies than his slobbish twin.  So how do you manage to look good for the girls?

This e-book can tell you how.  I’ve done entirely too much research on the Web (seriously, my personal life is suffering for you guys…you better appreciate it!), and this one keeps popping up here and there.  Apparently it’s been the #1 product of its kind for some time now, so I figured I’d go ahead and throw a link to it in here for you.

Inside “Grooming Secrets for Men”, you’ll find a wealth of tips and tricks for how to keep your body healthy and in the best possible shape.  How to eat, what suppliments to take, how to get rid of acne, how to trim pretty much ANY type of body hair, and so many other tips it’ll make your head explode.  Seriously, I got the impression from the testimonials on the site that it’s a rather lengthy book, and every inch of it is packed with content.

So, methinks this could end up being a quality tool for you guys to get yourselves whipped into shape and looking much more attractive to women than if you just slummed about looking like you just rolled out of bed.

Until next time, blah blah blah.  You know the drill.

Here’s a bit of advice I’d be willing to bet you’ll quickly agree with: you’re going to perform your “game” significantly better if you’re comfortable: comfortable with yourself, comfortable with her, and comfortable with your surroundings.

The next few posts will detail a couple things you can do to get a little more comfortable with each of the above things.

1) Comfortable with yourself: this may seem silly, but look in the mirror once in a while.  Just look at yourself.  If you can manage to do it without feeling too awkward, be naked while you’re doing it, like in front of the full-length bathroom mirror.  Now, it doesn’t matter if you’re ugly, balding, overweight, or any physical problem…find something to compliment yourself on.  It can be your smile, your eyes, a bit of good muscle tone on your forearms…whatever you can see about yourself that appeals to you, something positive.  Every time you do this, find something new to be pleased about.  I advise doing this once every two or three days.

Also, after you find something good about yourself, find something not so good, and make a plan on how to deal with it.  If you’ve got a bit of extra weight around your stomach, figure out a plan to lose some of that weight, or at least come to terms with it.  It’s all about your self-image.  If you’re happy with yourself, then it’ll show and come off as an air of confidence, which is definitely attractive to women, even if you yourself may not be a Brad Pitt.  Attitude creates excellence, my friend, and a positive attitude about yourself can create excellent attraction between you and a woman.

 Just be sure you don’t overdo it…there’s a very solid and defined line between cocky, egotistical asshole guy and self-confident, happy-with-himself guy.  You don’t want to come off as narcissistic and conceited.  That WILL turn a woman off to you.

 So yeah, step one is to become comfortable with yourself.  Once you’ve made yourself aware of your good points, worked on or come to terms with your lesser points, and formed a positive self-image, you’ll display a confidence that will make you much more appealing to just about anyone, and in particular the ladies.

I was reading some articles earlier today, prepping for another post, and I came across one that’s pretty interesting, and a good idea.

It advises for you to read the newspaper to get up on current events and general trivia for smalltalk when you’re chatting with women.  Topics for conversation are one of the big roadblocks in getting to know women, and it’s really a pretty damn good idea.

Reading the newspaper may sound a little boring, but there are always a bunch of little stories and quirky happenings going on in the world, so you could easily come up with all sorts of things to talk about, and sound fairly well-informed and knowledgable while doing it.  Sounding like you know what you’re talking about, and have a clue about what’s going on in the world is a bit impressive to the ladies, and will most likely help your “game” significantly.

 The article can be found on the front page of http://www.sosuave.com/.  The newsletter looks to be free, so perhaps it can be of help to you guys, too.

Until next time, good luck, and of course keep checking in for new updates!